A life cannot be rushed, cannot be worked on a schedule as so many people want it to be. We must accept what comes to us at a given time, and not ask for more. But life is endless, so we never die; we were never really born. We just pass through different phases. There is no end. Human’s have many dimensions. But time is not as we see time, but rather in lessons that are learned.
23 years ago Kati Grubby came into the world and it instantly became a brighter place. Somehow I was lucky enough to be glued to your side for half of your time on this earth.
You taught me how to ease up, let go, and have fun- how to truly live in the moment. You taught me what to do with what you referred to as my “nappy hair”. You taught me what a true friend was and what it’s like to have someone there for you unconditionally through the years. Our friendship sums up my childhood.
Then you taught me what real pain felt like. You made me realize how truly fragile life is. My heart broke and my biggest fear came true when you left us. You taught me that my entire world could be flipped upside down in one moment, and somewhere in that you freed me. With that I learned me that money, a job, and social status are of no importance whatsoever. You gave me the strength to live the simple happy life I wanted without caring about what anyone else thought. For the first time ever, I truly saw the greatness in everyday life and realized how blessed I am to be a healthy person in this beautiful world. I will never take a single day for granted.
Life is precious, treat it with care and respect. And go hug your best friend today!
Happy Birthday Kati Grubby <3 I will never stop loving & missing you
